I see myself capable of arrogance and brutality… That’s a fierce thing, to discover within yourself that which you despise the most in others.
– George Stevens
You’ve got to know what your ‘thing’ is, and you’ve got to call it a ‘thing,’ whether it’s meanness, nastiness, un-forgiveness, arrogance, ego, resistance, rebelliousness or defiance. Everybody’s got a ‘thing,’ and once you call your ‘thing’ a ‘thing,’ we can give it a place to be or dismiss it.
– Iyanla Vanzant