‘You said a bad driver was only safe until she met another bad driver? Well, I met another bad driver, didn’t I? I mean it was careless of me to make such a wrong guess. I thought you were rather an honest, straightforward person. I thought it was your secret pride.’
‘I’m thirty,’ I said. ‘I’m five years too old to lie to myself and call it honor.’

F. Scott Fitzgerald

The Great Gatsby. Chapter 9, When Nick breaks up with Jordan, she accuses him of being dishonest and disingenuously leading her on.