Talkative, highly-strung, tiresome, foolish and unsophisticated – that’s Mrs. Bennet. She is described in the novel as “a woman of mean understanding, little information, and uncertain temper.”
Mrs. Bennet is obsessed to a ridiculous degree with finding rich husbands for her five daughters. That is her main goal in life, we are told. She is more concerned with security for her girls rather than finding someone they will be happy with.
She is of lower social status than her husband and lacks the social graces and self-awareness. Her behavior often does more harm than good to her daughters’ chances of finding a husband.
The “total want of propriety” of Mrs. Bennet and her three youngest daughters leads Mr. Darcy to object to the marriage between his friend Charles Bingley and Jane Bennet.
Small-minded and tactless, Mrs. Bennet is Jane Austen’s most widely mocked character. Her husband Mr. Bennet delights in irritating her with his ironic wit.
Five important quotes with analysis that give us a glimpse into the personality of the foolish and empty-headed Mrs. Bennet:
“A single man of large fortune; four or five thousand a year. What a fine thing for our girls!”
“The business of her life was to get her daughters married.”
“Oh! I am not at all afraid of her dying. People do not die of little trifling colds. She will be taken good care of. As long as she stays there, it is all very well. I would go and see her if I could have the carriage.”
“Oh! Mr. Bennet, you are wanted immediately; we are all in an uproar. You must come and make Lizzy marry Mr. Collins, for she vows she will not have him.”
“Good gracious! Lord bless me! only think! dear me! Mr. Darcy! Who would have thought it? And is it really true? Oh! my sweetest Lizzy! how rich and great you will be! What pin-money, what jewels, what carriages you will have! Jane’s is nothing to it – nothing at all. I am so pleased – so happy. Such a charming man! – so handsome! so tall! Oh, my dear Lizzy! Pray apologize for my having disliked him so much before. I hope he will overlook it. Dear, dear Lizzy. A house in town! Everything that is charming!…Ten thousand a year, and very likely more! ‘Tis as good as a Lord!”