I choose my friends for their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters and my enemies for their good intellects.

– Oscar Wilde

The Picture of Dorian Gray, Chapter 1. Lord Henry is only interested in other people from the point of view of how they can contribute to his life. Any "relationship" he has, such as it is, is purely one-way – Henry’s way! And any friend must be good looking – Henry is all into appearances and beauty.