Without rebuilding the confidence between parties, you will never succeed.
– Harri Holkeri
If you come to a negotiation table saying you have the final truth, that you know nothing but the truth and that is final, you will get nothing.
My opinion on who’s wrong or who’s right has nothing to do with the fact that we have to bring together people who are against each other, to transform antagonism into cooperation.
Men and women have roles – their roles are different, but their rights are equal.
Discussion is just a tool. You have to aim; the final goal must be a decision.
I recently reread an article of mine written in 1964, and I think it is still valid. There is not much difference. Many of the items on the agenda 37 years ago are still there.
Without accepting the other person’s thinking, you cannot further your own interest. You need the other’s help to get results.
I do not want to speak about overpopulation or birth control, but I think education is the way to give new impetus to the poverty question.
One of the biggest development issues in the world is the education of girls. In the United States and Europe, it has been accepted, but not in Africa and the developing countries.
We Finns represent a very transparent and open-minded way of reaching political decisions.
That is where consensus-building begins-with the idea that you have your own truth, but that the negotiator on the other side of the table has his own truth as well.
We have the tools, but we have to learn how to use them. That is my political philosophy.
When the problems in Northern Ireland started, it was not a question of Protestantism or Catholicism, because the Catholic church was the only church at that time-it was a nationalist conflict.
In international or national crises, there are always questions of lack of confidence. You have to change the minds of the people in order to get results.
I really do hope that the Millennium Summit gives new impetus to the work of the United Nations.
There are big issues, like the reform of the Security Council. These kinds of questions are something the President of the General Assembly must keep his eye on.
Peace enforcement is a much more difficult kind of operation than peacekeeping.
I think I can regard myself as a political decision-maker.
In Finland, we learned quite a lot from our own civil war. The wounds were visible when I was a boy, but my generation went into the Second World War and it united the Finnish nation, so I do not see any more wounds.
In Finland we have equal political rights for women and men. We do not regard ourselves according to sex.
If we go back in the history of different nations, violence and the use of force are part of their heritage. These are the traditions of mankind.
In every European nation, there have been problems in history when the society was too divided.
Finland had a civil war less than 100 years ago, just like in Ireland. If you look at the history of newly independent nations, civil war is almost every time present, even in the United States.
You cannot make easy decisions unless you first commit yourself to hard solutions.
There are many challenges, there are many obstacles; let us try to change the obstacles to advantages.
If there is something I would like to do as President of the General Assembly, it is to place more emphasis on the issue of education, which enables a better life for women.