The unqualified truth is, that when I loved Estella with the love of a man, I loved her simply because I found her irresistible. Once for all; I knew to my sorrow, often and often, if not always, that I loved her against reason, against promise, against peace, against hope, against happiness, against all discouragement that could be. Once for all; I loved her none the less because I knew it, and it had no more influence in restraining me than if I had devoutly believed her to be human perfection.
– Charles Dickens
Great Expectations, Chapter 29. Oh the agony of unrequited romantic love. Pip expresses his desperate, agonizing, hopeless love for a girl who cannot love him or any other man back. Estella remains his obsession, even though this love makes him miserable, defies logic and it is not reciprocated. But Pip simply cannot help himself. There is a sad irony to Pip’s admissions about his unconditional and destructive love. There is also a kind of self-deception in acknowledging that his love for Estella is not good for him, yet he still pursues it regardless.